McKenzie Friends — What They Can and Cannot Do

What is this?

A McKenzie Friend is a lay supporter who can accompany you to a family‑court hearing, take notes, give quiet advice, and help you organise paperwork, but they cannot speak for you in court or conduct the case on your behalf.

What happens in practice?

1. Before the hearing – You arrange for a McKenzie Friend (often a trusted friend, relative, or volunteer from a support organisation) to attend with you.

2. At the court building – You check in together; the McKenzie Friend sits in the public gallery or beside you, depending on the judge’s direction.

3. During the hearing – They may:

- Whisper suggestions or remind you of points you wanted to raise.

- Hand you documents or notes.

- Take a brief written note of what is said.

- Offer emotional support.

They cannot:

- Address the judge, make legal submissions, or examine witnesses.

- Sign documents on your behalf.

- Act as your legal representative.

4. After the hearing – They can help you understand what happened, organise any next steps, and remind you of deadlines.

What do I need to do?

• Choose someone you trust – they should be calm, reliable, and understand the limits of their role.
• Inform the court – When you file your application or at the first hearing, let the judge know you will be bringing a McKenzie Friend (a simple statement such as “I wish to be accompanied by a McKenzie Friend” is enough).
• Prepare a brief note – Write down the key points you want to raise; give a copy to your McKenzie Friend so they can remind you if needed.
• Know the limits – Remind yourself and your McKenzie Friend that they cannot speak for you; if you feel you need to say something, you must do it yourself.
• Keep records – Store any notes or documents they help you with, in case you need to refer back later.
• Check for any local rules – Some courts may have a short form to complete naming your McKenzie Friend; ask the court clerk or look on the court’s website for guidance.

Where can I find more help?

• GOV.UK – “McKenzie Friends” – overview of rights and limits: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/mckenzie-friends
• Citizens Advice – free advice on family court procedures and how to get support: https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/family/
• Rights of Women – guides for women attending family court, including using a McKenzie Friend: https://rightsofwomen.org.uk/
• Gingerbread – support for single parents, with information on court accompaniment: https://www.gingerbread.org.uk/
• Law Centres Network – may offer volunteers who can act as McKenzie Friends: https://www.lawcentres.org.uk/
• Local support groups or community organisations – often have trained volunteers willing to help; ask your local council or advice centre for details.

Remember: this is general guidance only. For advice specific to your situation, speak to a solicitor, legal aid provider, or your local Citizens Advice.